"Nisargadatta, whose name interestingly enough translates as Mister Natural, a masterful teacher of sacred emptiness and essential non-duality, was once asked what one might do about the qualities of separation that small minds so often manifest in relationships. He said, 'Just let go of every thought except 'I am God, you are God.' He offered them an express ticket. He made the Beloved the conductor. But of course, even on this train, after the last stop, you must walk the rest of the way yourself."
Stephen Levine and Ondrea Levine
"Embracing the Beloved: Relationship as the Path of Awakening"